Other injuries include throat rawness, throat bruising, gagging, and vomiting. All that said: Yes, sexually transmitted infections STIs can be transferred during oral sex.
In this chapter of the Blow Job Guide, you are going to learning everything on how to deep throat your man. Quick Warning: While this tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your man scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you.
If you are looking for more advanced blow job techniques like my deep throating advice below, then you should probably listen to this podcast. Still here? The most important aspect of learning how to deep throat your boyfriend or husband without gagging is getting your gag reflex, also known as your pharyngeal reflex under control.
Related: If you want to give your man back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually addicted to you, then you'll find them in my private and discreet newsletter. Get it here. Once you get it under control, deep throating becomes ridiculously easy. Your gag reflex is usually gets triggered when something touches the back of your throat, roof of your mouth, tonsils or even the back of your tongue causing a spasm-like sensation or reflex contraction [ 2 ].
Getting your gag reflex under control is a simple case of desensitizing it. The process of desensitizing your gag reflex takes time and effort, and there is no other way around this. Just follow the below steps to start desensitizing your gag reflex. This is the most effective way to get your gag reflex under your control. After all, since when is it sexy to wear ear plugs or perform acupuncture on yourself before deep throating your man?! This way, you can control how fast he is thrusting and how deep you take him. I cover good communication more in this in-depth guide.
A ificant aspect that makes deep throating your boyfriend much easier is choosing a Deep thought sex position that works for you. Thankfully you can see a bunch of different oral sex positions demonstrated here in Chapter 6. Many women report that any position where your mouth and throat are in alignment is best as there is less pressure on the sides of your throat. Positions that achieve this alignment include the Lie Back position and the Jack Hammer position. If you are new here, then you may want to take the quiz below to learn deep thought sex good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man.
You may discover you that you suck pun intended or that you are already a blow job queen. As I always say, the key is experimenting and figuring out what works best for you. Controlling your gag reflex when deep throating your man is just the start. Try breathing through your nose. You may only be able to do it for a split second when he pulls out of your throat with each stroke, but you may find it completely impossible to breathe at all. It all comes down to your anatomy and the size of his penis.
If you can breathe this way, then great. If not, then there is another way…. Many men never get to experience any deep throating during their entire lives. Even if you can only manage a few in and out movements when you attempt it, your man is going to be very grateful. But if you want to step it up a level, there are some super powerful techniques you can try.
Licking his balls — If you are on your knees, and he is standing while you deep throat him like in the kneeling blow job positionthen you are in the perfect place to extend your tongue outwards and start licking his testicles. The key is keeping him deep in your throat as you do this, where he is neither moving in or out.
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Most guys have never even thought of this, so be prepared to have one happy man on your hands when you do it. Humming — Another simple but powerful technique you should try at least once when deep throating your man is humming while keeping him deep in your throat so no thrusting in and out. While it may not make him shoot his load, the vibrations provide a powerfully satisfying sensation, especially when he orgasms. Spasms On His Head — An advanced and hard-to-master technique is using your throat contractions to your advantage.
When you gag, your throat naturally tightens as your pharyngeal muscles contract.
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This contraction can be quite uncomfortable for you, but if your man is in your throat, then the contractions and spasms they make can feel incredible for him. If you have ificant control over your throat spasms, then you can allow your throat to spasm slightly while he is inside you.
You can accidentally bite down when you gag…which can lead to a trip to the emergency room…and nobody wants that. Your hands — When deep throating your man, your hands will be free.
You can put them on his legs and stomach to control the speed you take him into your throat or you can reach around, grab his bum and pull him deeper into you. But there are a bunch of other techniques with your hands that you can try on your man too that I teach here. Finish down your throat — Many guys will have received blow jobs where they finished in their partners mouth.
Most likely, your man is used to this feeling and has done it many times before. However, very few guys have ever climaxed down their partners throat while getting deep throated. It feels completely different for your man…and of course it feels very different for you too!
When you start deep throating your man, you are going to quickly notice that you are producing large quantities of saliva. For almost all women, this is unavoidable and is definitely NOT something you should worry about. So if you want to give him fellatio like a pro and make it extra sloppy, then deep throating your man is the perfect way to kill two birds with one stone.
More tips on sucking cock like a pornstar here. This guide will arm you with the knowledge and skills to deep throat your man like a pro…but…Not every woman is going to be able to deep throat her man, no matter how much she practices and tries to reduce her gag reflex.
A small percentage of women have an overactive gag reflex. This overactive gag reflex can even make giving a regular blow job tough to do without gagging. There are plenty of different sex tips that you could be using on your man instead of deep throating him.
Some people recommend that you use a throat numbing spray. As I mentioned earlier, you can let your man cum and ejaculate his semen down your throat. Alternatively you can let him finish in your mouth and swallow it, tips on that here in Chapter 9. There are also a lot of other great ways that you can finish him off when giving him head that I describe in Chapter 4 here. I want to teach you some oral sex deep thought sex I call "sexual heroin" because they will make any man completely and utterly addicted to you, doing anything just to be with you.
These secret oral sex techniques, that you can use on any man, will give him back-arching, body-shaking, screaming orgasms so powerful that he may pass out afterwards. Discover them here. If you are in a relationship where the "spark" is no longer there and would like to experience more passion, fire, and intensity then you may want to check them out. Some side effects include: Having a man who constantly looks at you like he wants to rip your clothes off.
Other women becoming jealous of your relationship and how your man treats you. A guy who makes excuses to his buddies and cancels on them so he can spend more time with you. A man who can't keep his hands off you.
You're also going to hear a story of how one woman used them to overcome a potential divorce and make her marriage stronger and more passionate than she ever thought possible. Listen to her story here. Sean is the editor of Bad Girls Bible and responsible for recruiting our team of sex and relationship experts.
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When he's not fastidiously checking for proper syntax or fixing bugs on the site, he's working with illustrators to make the Bad Girls Bible more beautiful and ensuring that our weekly newsletter goes out on time. A sausage also has skin on it, which will get slippery like a penis would which will help with sliding it down your throat. Excellent suggestion! One thing I would suggest though is to use a cooked sausage make sure you allow it to cool first to avoid any possible diseases transferring from the sausage to your throat.
Keep the cockskin tight and stretched. I love a bj best with that strong pull while i get bigger and deeper into her throat. I love her gurgling sounds as I ejaculate deep and she swallow and smiles and laughs with a big semen load!
Hi Sean I was sucking his dick and I started going a bit deeper then my guy whole my head and push it down I literally felt like to gag but the quote came in my head just bread through my nose and I literally deep throated him. I remember that quote cause I read the deep throat info. Glad I could help, but he should have talked about what he was planning beforehand. Not cool to just grab your head. I see your thought here, and it makes great sense once you start to enter the esophagus… I think the point is for it to be soft initially just for the gentle stimulation of the relax itself.
Once you want to practice penetration, your idea is perfect.